Today i will share of you about relationship
The
first thing is we must know what exactly meaning of relationship.
Relationship
is
As
we know...relationship can be have good and bad relationship.
But
for today we will learn about the types of good relationship.
There
are 7 types of good relationship is:
1. Both sides see the
relationship as an opportunity to give
One of the basic
relationship problems is selfishness. How does selfishness occur? In my
opinion,selfishness occurs when someone focuses more on getting rather than
giving. The more someone focuses on getting, the more selfish he or she
becomes. That’s why the willingness to give is essential for good
relationships. Both parties should see the relationship as an opportunity to
give. This is the foundation upon which the other points below are built.
2. Both sides are
willing to change
Nobody is perfect but
everyone can grow. In a good relationship, both sides are willing to change.
They realize that they are not perfect and there is still a lot of room for
improvement. Instead of blaming their partner when something goes wrong, they
look inside to see if there is something they can change. When both sides have
this attitude, the relationship grows stronger and stronger.
3. Both sides are
willing to admit mistakes
In a good relationship,
both parties aren’t afraid to admit mistakes. Instead of being defensive, they
openly admit the mistakes they make. They can then work together to correct the
mistakes. This, of course, is not easy to do. It takes a humble heart to admit mistakes.
4. Both sides are
willing to listen first
In a good relationship,
both sides are good listeners. They are willing to understand their partner’s
position first before trying to get understood. Doing this is much easier when
both sides see the relationship as an opportunity to give (characteristic #1).
5. Both sides support
each other
Not only are both sides
willing to listen, but also they give what their partner needs. The law of
reciprocity states that when we do good to others they will also do good to us.
We reap what we sow. By supporting each other, both sides in the relationship
get what they need.
6. Both sides are open
to each other
Misunderstanding is one
of the basic relationship problems. That’s why it’s
essential that both sides are open to each other. When they have something they
don’t like about their partner, they should communicate it rather than just
keeping it in their heart. Of course, they should do so in a respectful way so
as not to offend their partner.
7. Both sides have
integrity
In a good relationship,
both parties act in line with what they think and say. They keep their
promises. This is important because they can then trust each other. This trust
makes the relationship strong.
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Conclusion
Relationships that have
these characteristics will grow stronger over time. The relationships will be
rewarding not just for the people involved, but also for the people around
them. Why? Because by working together they can produce more value than they
can ever do by themselves. People around them will get the benefit of this
increased value.
Start applying the
characteristics above in your life. If you do that, people who relate with you
will notice and eventually do the same to you.
Looking at the above
points, here are what you should do:
1. See
the relationship as an opportunity to give
2. Be
willing to change
3. Be
willing to admit your mistakes
4. Listen
first
5. Support
your partner
6. Be
open to your partner
7. Have
integrity
If you do them, you will
be a good relationship builder.
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